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Originally Posted by Jim Kata
I feel sort of dickish about it, but I am going as a guest and not a host so I feel that I am asking for too much for myself (transporation and lodging) as it is.
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1. You have nothing to feel dickish about. This individual invited himself and that was extremely rude. The best response is "Sorry, man. If I were putting this together, no problem, but I'm an invited guest. It isn't up to me to invite you, and the guy who's doing the inviting doesn't know you. We'll do a trip some other time."
2. Never feel bad about accepting hospitality that is freely offered.