I am afraid I can't relate to your feelings on this so I won't be of much help there. I spent a LOT of time away from my gf (now wife), sometimes months, in a very boring and friendless location for a year, and I was away in general for another 2 years of our relationship (though not in a boring friendless location). We had no problems, and when I was bored I'd play a video game or some such. So while I have been in your same situation for much longer periods of time, it just doesn't compute.
What I am going to do is warn you though, because I've seen it in others. Most women like strong men, not needy ones. I could go on and on to why this is, but thats for another thread. Your issues with being apart are obviously annoying to her, and makes you look needy and weak. Since I've seen this sort of thing lead to break ups, just for the sake of your relationship don't let her see how miserable you are without her. Find your own solution where you can, but for her, be strong.
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