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Originally Posted by DonovanDuVal
I think that Poppinjay hit something, my jealousy meter is in the red here, not that I think that reflects badly on you per say, and of course I could be wrong. But be honest to this close and mostly anonymous TFP world, do you have feelings for this girl?
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I did have some pretty serious feelings for her this past summer. To which I think I may have posted about on here (not sure, i frequent a few forums... blah blah blah).
After analyzing what people have said here and another place the best thing I see that I can do is take a seat in the back row and keep my mouth shut and not say anything. Let her do what she wants to, and while I may not agree with what she is doing, let her do her thing. Which also puts me in the situation of when she breaks up with this guy, she (has in the past) expects me to be around to help her through her crap from her last bf. (if that makes sense).
As far as the high school comment goes, give me a break. My social life with the opposite sex started my freshman year of college. Now as a junior/senior I've had to "grow up" quite quickly as I've been behind for so many years.
She IM's me every now and then to say 'hi' as if to let me know she still exists, I don't initiate conversation any more, but yet I invited her to a new years bash at my townhouse. We'll see how it all plays out. I figure I can't do much if anything to curve her ways, but if she wants to experience her college career to the fullest, then so be it.