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Originally Posted by Seaver
I AM old fashioned. However I'm also a realist. Calling her a slut will only get her pissed off at him and make her stop listening to his input. Stating how he feel's it is wrong, and WHY, will have much more impact than pointing fingers.
She's going through a wild streak. She should not have free reign, her friends should be there to talk sense into her.
For Guy-to-Guy talk that's fair game. If my buddy is being a dick I'll gutcheck him and tell him to stop being a dick. Guy-to-Girl conversations take much more subtlety and tact. The "slut" thing wont work, no matter how much her "friends" use it (with friends like that... but that's another story).
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That's pretty sexist. Not that I disagree. 
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