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I grew up hearing, "if you don't change, no man will love you. You are too strong and too outspoken." It is true, I'm a very confident woman. And, without a doubt, Lebell loves me!
When I divorced my ex, I thought for sure I would spend the rest of my life alone. After all, my parents were right, I was too difficult for him to truly love. But two short years later Lebell and I married. We are still madly in love and things just get better every day. A real man (as posted above) is perfectly capable of loving a real woman.
My advice, stay true to yourself and it will happen when you least expect it. Try to please others and you will loose yourself in the process. If you remain alone, it is time to be interspective -- to learn about yourself and better yourself. Then, when the right one comes along the relationship is that much better! Whatever you do, don't settle.
(Sportswidow05 -- I know you didn't ask, but that goes for you too. I stayed with my ex for way too long because I was afraid of being alone and of hurting the children. The best thing I ever did was leave him. I would say that was true even if I didn't have Lebell! You are worth more then the pain of the relationship.)
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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