Friendship! It's not about 'having' a friend in the possessive sense, it's about being a friend. Part of that is about accepting what other people are and being there for them if the sh*t hits the fan.
So sure tell her your concerns as Seaver says, but don't go calling her a slut. Oh and just because her best 'friends' call her a slut doesn't mean that it's okay for you too. And yes I know you only told her that her actions could be 'considered slutty' and didn't actually call her a slut. But how did you really think that she would take it?
I think that Poppinjay hit something, my jealousy meter is in the red here, not that I think that reflects badly on you per say, and of course I could be wrong. But be honest to this close and mostly anonymous TFP world, do you have feelings for this girl?
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