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Wow that post hit me hard.
After a few failed romances, and just recently falling out of a really good friendship with a former lover.. I could say that I feel pretty hopeless. And I guess to add insult to injury, not too long ago, I fell for someone who I might've wronged too many times, that I will spend the rest of my days trying to make things right
I'm okay as a person. Much of my recollection of others involve them pursuing me. I'm fairly adept in many things..yet I feel myself to be without end in the relationship department. There's this one guy I've held my heart out for that I don't even know how much longer I can keep hanging on. Do I feel hopeless. Fuck yeah I do.
With regard to your situation, I feel that you broke up for very good reasons. Don't stay with someone who might just be a rebound to you because that person could be with someone who actually does love them wholly. You did the right thing, though I'm sure it doesn't feel too right.
I think people can fall in love more than once in their lifetime. I feel that anyone can have mroe than one beautiful relationship in the span of their x years on earth. All is not lost.
Wow I should heed my own advice huh. But I guess do as I say not as I do......
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