First you must learn to move the stone before you can raise the X-Wing.
Sorry, channeling Yoda there.
Use your imagination. Since marriage, I've had sex with a good dozen people, in my head. Goth girls, bad girls, farm girls... just to complete the stereotype. All while remaining monogamous. The best has been when my wife dyed her red, then when she dyed it black. Whenever we shop together and she buys hair color, I tend to say, "get the red.... get the red...."
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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