I think I have some radical advice-get a divorce. Seriously. This isn't going to end well. You will either cheat on her, or get your desired multiple/different partners with her "approval" (i.e. her letting you and crying about it as an alternative to losing you). I say just make a break now. You're obviously not ready for monogamy, despite (supposedly) being in a monagomous relationship for 3 years prior to marriage. So just chalk this up to experience, and move on while you can still stand each other. Plus, since you're still fairly newly married, you can probably split now with a much better divorce settlement than two years down the line when she catches you in bed with her best friend(s).
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