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Anxst, Sorceress and I are a trio. This is how it started.
Sorceress and I had been best friends for years before we met Anxst. When we met him it was just Anxst and Sorceress in the relationship. I was their roommate and best friend. After about 7 months of living together we started a D&D game where my and Sorceress's characters both had the hots for Anxst's character. The three character's ended up getting married in game. This got us to thinking about the three of us. I think it took about 2 or three weeks of serious discussion before we all got into bed together. This was about 5 years ago now and we are still together. It is not always easy, and there has been some jealousy involved. However, if someone is feeling something they bring it up and we talk about it until whatever it is that is bothering the person is resolved. We are all very happy.
Only recently has the subject of swinging come up. Some of our friends swing, so we decided to talk about it. The basic concenses is that if one of us wants to sleep with someone we talk about who that person is and if we all like them. If we know them well enough and we all like them, then we take it from there.
Like everyone else here said, its all about communication, respect, and trust.
I hope this helps.
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I was covered in blood, but it wasn't mine, so it was okay. - Anita Blake
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