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In response to what you're describing, it's perfectly normal. Why do you think our species has dominated for such a lengthy period of time now? Sex is the most practical and natural impulse for humans. But, if we acted on impulse alone, we would probably all be in a pretty screwed up world.
The important thing is, have you really thought about having sex with these other people? Or is it just a kinky fetish you think about to get off? If it's just a fetish, why not just masturbate? Or actually develop discipiline. My main concern is that problems like this often are a sign of other problems. I think you should ask yourself if you are mature enough to handle a relationship? Are you actually in love with your wife or was it just a comfort thing? Why is sex your primary concern?
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