Hey Ratbastid:
Yes, she knows I would NEVER act on these desires. It feels great hearing this from someone in your position...someone to tell me this is normal, and not the worst thing in the world. That is exactly how I feel. i always had an out, now I don't, which is why everything is so escalated now. people have told me that the first year of marriage is the toughest for many reasons, this being one of them. It makes perfect sense, and while some may say I'm just happy now because I have been told what I have wanted to hear, that may be true, but that explanation seems the most logical given my specific situation
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