We dated 3 years before we got married. Yes, once in a while, I would want sex with someone else, and I told her that. We bth shrugged it off as being a guy thing.
She knows everything about my sexual past, and knew everything before we got married. Now, we also discuss everything, so commnication is not the problem. We are completely open, and she knows exactly how I feel.
before marriage, I just shrugged everything off. Now, I have these thoughts quite often. She knows its not her, and she feels sad that I want these other things. We cannot seem to find a solution.
My conclusion is that I either have sex with many people, or be with one person that I love. Obviously the latter is my choice, I just dont know how to cope with the lack of the former.
Cynthetiq: The post you made reference to is completely different. I have never cheated on any girlfriend ever, or in my marriage, and would never.
Last edited by danny_boy; 12-19-2005 at 04:31 PM..
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