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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
seems to me your soulmate would have been as into "diversification" (is that a word) as you.....like mine is, otherwise how can the honestly be your soulmate?
maybe I need a nap, but sounds to me like you need to tell your dick you fucked up and to be happy with what it gets
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Damn, ShaniFaye is layin' it DOWN! She speaks the truth.
Really though man, that's a pretty major trade-off to make... soul mate vs. your sexual satisfaction? Those two things shouldn't be contradictory.. that's the whole nature of being a "soulmate." (Of course, I don't believe in soulmates, but if you do, it's gonna be a problem.)
Did you and your wife go over your sexual histories and expectations for your marriage, before you got married? Did she know that you might struggle with being a one-woman man? These are MAJOR components of communication in any healthy relationship... how long were you together before getting engaged, and married?