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If you don't mind my asking, how long did you date your wife exclusively before getting engaged? Your post makes it sound like not having sex with other people was a relatively new thing for you once you got married, in which case why did you get married without having already come to terms with the expectations? Did you discuss these feelings with your wife before getting married (or engaged even)? To be honest, it sounds like there isn't a lot of communication going on at all.
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