I am also interested in how people handle the swinging situation in their relationship. I am assuming that trust, commitment, and communication are very important. I also think that both people have to be willing and curious in the beginning. I don't think that you can take a person who never thought about being a swinger and make them one. Of course that is my theory. I know that personally, at this point in time, I couldn't imagine another woman with jj. However, I could see myself with another woman and we have discussed this and are considering what the implications may be.
I guess to piggyback on Sultana's questions what are upsides and downsides of swinging or having open relationships? Also, if the spouse knows of the relationship and is ok with it...is it cheating?
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