I have to agree that it is something that has to be stopped, perhaps an intervention with the brother. However, depending on your relationship depends on how far you should try forcing the issue. The reason why I say this is blood is thicker then water. And a lot of people will stick up for siblings over others. So depending on how your relationship is, would depend on how far I would push the issue (since you do not want to harm your own relationship).
Another way less confrontational would perhaps be to perhaps ask your SO what issues his brother has, and how you can help him resolve them, so he would not be in a situation where he is always in need of extra money.
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