I agree. The fact that he's coming means he's at least trying to accept your 'new' sister.
I feel kind of sorry for your parents but not in a way you might think. Maybe they're harboring a lot of guilt and anger at themselves, but they're hurting everyone else in the process. How sad that they can't see that the best thing a parent can do is see their children happy. Instead, they embrace some sort of misplaced anger or hurt as if this was somehow done TO them instead of having nothing to do with them at all.
Don't feel guilty for what they have done to themselves. Have a wonderful holiday with the people you love and who love you in return. That's really what it's all about, no?
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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