Originally Posted by raeanna74

I have always wanted to go to Hedonism in Jamaca. Go with her for her safety. But then you don't have to participate. Even if she does not get involved with any of the guys there she can enjoy baring it all and going nude in public. It might bring her out of her shell a little bit.

You could take her to a swinger club in your area. Just because you attend a club does not mean you need to participate. It's common for people to attend just to get an idea of what goes on there or for the voyeuristic experience. Then if she feels comfortable she could play with a couple of the guys there. Find out as much as you can about the club and she may feel more comfortable about it. The advantages of meeting the guys at a swinger club is that in all of the swinger groups we've learned about or been involved with the key rule is that "no, means no" and she would not have to fear being put into a situation where she was not comfortable and unable to say no. Granted it's a little more public but unless she gets to know a guy who is willing to share her she may not have any other SAFE options.

I personally this it's probably not as wise to set something up without her foreknowledge. In that case she may be more fearful when the situation presents itself. If she knows this was prearranged she may not be as shy or anxious.