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Originally Posted by Seeker
but it can also be confusion or just a total lack of understanding.
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If that were ever said to me - "Oh you're confused..." "or you just don't understand..." I'd bet my last nickel that they were trying to manipulate the situation to their advantage - so it's not really their fault.. you're just confused.. you don't understand me so I had to do go out and shag another person...
Confusion and lack of understanding are all about a lack of communication... if person A couldn't make person B understand something... maybe person A should have tried a different approach... Lack of understanding is an excuse.
I'm not sure I beleive that once a cheater always a cheater.... i think perhaps that people can mend their ways -- but i personally, would have a hard time taking a cheater back because trust is very difficult to earn and I'm not sure i could ever forget... forgive yes.. but forget? Eh -- I'm not that nice a person...