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The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. I loathe cheaters and cheating because I loathe liars and hypocrites. Of course it is selfish to refuse to go out with cheaters. Of course some people can cheat, learn from their mistakes, and never do it again. That doesn't mean I need to be the one they decide to change their ways with or that it is a bad thing to look after your own mental health over a partners.
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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