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I think you're overthinking it.
When people cheat, I'd venture to say 99% of people didnt reason it through. It was in the head of the moment. If people thought about it, then they're just cold and cruel to their partner. Most were in a weird emotional state and/or in raw lust for the other person.
It's not faulty logic you can debate someone out of. You can't logic someone out of wanting pizza while they're on a diet. You can convince them it's a bad idea, you can even convince them not to (for a short while). But you cant convince them not to want it.
Cheating is the same way, there are people who cant control their desire to. There are people who can but in a moment of weakness dont. And then there are those who put their partner before that lustful want.
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