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I think it's how you want to deal with the situation. If you truly love somebody, you can forgive them (and by that I mean choose to work with them and through this problem) and help them face themselves. That is the ultimate act of love in my eyes. Just kicking someone to the curb because they cheated is lazy and selfish. You are more absorbed with what's been done to you rather than looking for a way for both of you to grow beyond the situation and resolve anything for real.
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I have to agree with what alans said. The
Cheater is the lazy and selfish one. Alcohol is NEVER an excuse, for all it does is unveil what someone truely thinks. If they cheat while intoxicated, they've been wanting to anyways.
I've never cheated once. I've been drunk to the point where I was quite litterally holding onto the grass to keep from falling off the earth, but I have not once so much as kissed another girl while in a relationship.
Alcohol is never an excuse for cheating. Alcohol simply brings out what is there.
Cheating is not an accident. You dont walk down the street, trip on the curb and end up naked with another man.
Cheating is not a disease. You dont cheat because someone sneezed on you at work.
There are MANY choices involved.
A cheater has no excuse in my opinion. While their relationship may not fufill them, that is up to them to determine and end prior to the event.