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Originally Posted by ohh_shesus
I'm sorry if you took it that way. I didn't mean to come across as cold-heared or uncaring about other's losses. I know that loss is horrible, but I was merely echoing what other's had said about appreciating what you have and taking advantage of every moment with a person you care about. It seems that people want to find a 'reason' for a loss and typically there never is one. In order to deal with a loss, some people need to create a reason. That is all I meant by it. I didn't mean to downplay tragedies or anyone's feelings involved in the loss of a loved one.
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Yes, I can see that. And again I hope you don't feel personally attacked.
I do think many "need" a reason and will grasp on to the first one which comes along. And some go crazy from that since no reason satisfies. And some come to a resignation early there is no reason. And...
On we could go.
This type of interchange -- a forum -- can be difficult to sometimes get across meaning without being misunderstood.
Even in a chat you sometimes get that too, though perhaps that immediate interaction can help. But I suppose short of face-to-face interaction we may not always be able to be fully clear about some points, save for the chance to follow-up and clarify.