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Originally Posted by zz0011
I mean no disrespect, but may I suggest being a bit more reserved at suggestings reasons for others who experience such a loss? I think it's a bit more individualistic than that, and I'm not so sure it does always bring about new understandings of current relationships. It wasn't exactly like that in our loss of a baby to SIDS.
Again, I mean no disrespect to you, nor am I trying to personally attack, and I sincerely hope you do not take it that way. Simply responding with another perspective, from the experience of losing a child.
And I noticed it was far different for me to loss my child, when watching and comparing my grandmother's loss of her son. I suppose that would be obvious, but the comparison / contrast struck me at the time, and stuck with me, and helped me realize losses of children are very individualistic experiences.
Blessings.
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I'm sorry if you took it that way. I didn't mean to come across as cold-heared or uncaring about other's losses. I know that loss is horrible, but I was merely echoing what other's had said about appreciating what you have and taking advantage of every moment with a person you care about. It seems that people want to find a 'reason' for a loss and typically there never is one. In order to deal with a loss, some people need to create a reason. That is all I meant by it. I didn't mean to downplay tragedies or anyone's feelings involved in the loss of a loved one.