Tragedies are difficult to come to terms with. My first fiance died in a car accident Sept. 1999. I still have trouble dealing with it at times. Even though the engagement was broken off shortly before the accident, it still hit hard and I went through a lot of pain and confusion during that time. I think that it is important that your son talks through the feelings and questions he may have. Even if it is rambling and he doesn't want anyone to repsond. Same with you.
I suppose if you are looking for a 'reason', you could say that it will make other parents more aware of their children. When things like this happen it always brings a new understanding of current relationships in your life.
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