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Hey, man. I know right now you are preoccupied with getting over her, just dont put too much pressure on yourself to completely be cool with her. For one, this may lead you to believe that you are completely over it when you are not and something may happen that will just bring that crushing down and make you feel terrible. Secondly it's okay if you arnt over her, everyone has gone through this and theres no reason to add to your pain by thinking you are weak for not being over her, honestly if you truely loved someone and had a healthy relationship with them, you don't get over them, you just come to accept what happened, but there will always be that part of you that still loves them. The best thing to do now is keep reminding yourself of all the things you've got left to do in your life and how now is the best time to start doing them. Plus the chances of you ending up alone are slim if you really value love like I can tell you do. The people who end up alone are the ones who shut down after stuff like this, and give up on loving, you have to just remember to never let yourself get liek that.
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Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die.
"That's it, send out the ninjas!"
"So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."
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