Asking for some advice..
Last Saturday the 3rd I had my first "1 night stand". This is the first time I had sex with a girl without forming a friendship beforehand and it was great. Just one problem, I don't want this to be the last time I do anything with this girl and I'm not sure how to approach her or how I should handle a 1night stand.
She lives with her friends in the same apt complex as my roommates and myself but in the month I have been here they hung out with us three times. I never got to know her, I barely knew her name the night we had sex.
The morning after the sex was really weird. We didn't say much, just helped her find her clothes and her cell phone then she left with a goodbye and we haven't talked since.
I felt really bad about just letting her go like that. I think I should have offered to walk with her back to her apt or said something else, maybe asked if she wanted to get some coffee but I didn't think about any of that till it was too late. What should I have done? What would other guys have done? Should I expect her to be interested in me in some way since she did decide to have sex with me that night or was that just the alcohol doing the thinking?
I hope some females could help me understand what maybe going through her mind also. I'm a decent looking guy, little thick but girls always seem to befriend me but not date me so another thing I want to avoid is getting trapped in the friend zone. She on the other hand is a 8/10 or a 9/10 for looks. She also just so happens to be the most attractive girl I have been with sexually.
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