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Originally Posted by MEAD
The girl is mixed up if she wants him to fight. It seems like she is missing those romantic stereotypical behaviors that are so available from the man early on in the relationship and that she might be trying to artifically create a situation that would pull from the man some kind of heroic behavior that would sweep her off her feet. But the case is: she left willingly and a prolonged attempt to get her back would be pathetic.
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Not only pathetic, it would encourage later fictional drama in the relationship. If the games worked now, maybe later she will continue to use games instead of communication like a healthy adult. This situation would be a huge warning bell for me personally because I can't stand drama that people cause for themselves.
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