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Originally Posted by uptown
he does try to pay attention to my breasts during sex... and that is the problem.He engages in breast play that would work with a better endowed woman. While he's thrusting away he tries to fondle or to lean down to kiss/bite a breast but I'm so small that he'll end up slipping out which wouldn't happen if I had bigger breasts.
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This could be played up from a different angle...if you were taller they would be at a more approachable place also...it's all in how you look at it. From what I can tell the fact that he's doing it at all could/should be taken as an interest in you regardless of your size. He's paying attention to you...that at least says something doesn't it? He doesn't get mad when it doesn't work...he does soemthing else. Maybe you need to speak up and say something to him about making it more of a foreplay thing so he can actually spend some time enjoying them while you get to spend time doing the same. There's a postion out there that will make this work better for some people, you just have to be willing to explore and figure it out. My Aunt will tell you she doesn't have breasts because she is so small...all that protrudes is her nipples and unless they are aroused, you don't really notice them...she could wear a bandaid (not two criss-crossed...just one) and you wouldn't know she had anything. But yet her husband loves to play with them. It's all in the presentation and communication.
I think you need to take some time and think about the real problem. Besides, if we each got what we wanted in a person, what would there be left to fantasize about?? That would get pretty boring I think!
--side note...we are a very open family, and I happen to be more endowed then most of my family, so we make breast jokes all the time, and we also share information openly, hence why I know these things.