If the guy wants her back, he should communicate that desire to her. He should say that he understands he was taking the relationship for granted, and that he will work on that (with her help). That's it. If she's really interested in saving the relationship, she'll work with him from that point. If she isn't, nothing he can do will fix it, and he should just chalk it up as a lesson learned.
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