I have so little patience with game playing in relationships and it sounds like that's what she's expecting -- rather than actually having a conversation.
If a person wants out of the relationship, they want out. They state their reasons and then they leave. Done. It's sounding like your girlfriend's mindset is that the person really doesn't want to leave, they are just 'testing' the other person to see what they'd do and there's a specific standard that they have to meet otherwise they realy really are leaving...
If you really loved me you'd..... Fill in the blank....
If two people really loved one another, they wouldn't feel the need to test the relationship with a silly high school game.
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