Originally Posted by onodrim

Pretty much everything that SiNi said. Yes it would be awesome if everyone could be with their perfect physical ideal for a partner, but it's just reality that it doens't happen. And there is so much more to be gained from a relationship than simple physical attraction. Given time you don't even notice the flaws anymore, and if you do you simply don't care. There is no reason to miss out on everything a relationship can bring you because of a few inches here and there. If someone choses to be with another person who isn't their physical ideal I'm sure it's because they recognize this and all the other wonderful qualities that person has to offer.



I'm small chested too, and honestly there's a limited number of things you can do with small breasts other than fondle and kiss them. Have you talked to him about it, do you tell him you wished he paid more attention to your breasts during sex? It could be that he doesn't even realize he's doing it and you're taking his non-action for a bad sign or disinterest when he might not even be aware he's hurting you.