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there was a thread about this a while ago, I don't know if you guys remember. I still stand by the opinion that I wouldn't like it and find it disrespectful. If it's a sort of gentle awakening and him "letting you know" that he wants to make love, then that's okay. But not full on he's already in the middle of fucking you and you wake up...I'd feel confused and violated.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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