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Hahaha. So very true. I've only read the messages today, but yesterday something happened. And it is very close to what you said Bob.
Okay, so I go to spend the week end with her. I sleep at her place saturday evening, evrything is going well. Sunday morning, when we wake up, we have sex, but right after that she just turns away from me, saying nothing at all. We had decided to go visit Osaka, but, suddenly she just tells me "kaette" (go home). I can hear by the tone in her voice that she is not joking so I just decide to go back. I have not heard from her since, despite the messages I left.
The thing is, for many week ends before, even though we decided that we would do stuff on sunday, we would always leave very late cause I would not get up early enough. So yesterday, I asked her if she thought I was selfish for doing that and she said yes. I guess this just triggered this reaction on her part.
Anyways, reading your post, I realized my delfishness during the whole relationship. EVen though I made her happy. I guess choices must be made at some point...
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