I can't say I blame you, iBlade. But I think she's making a bad decision. I think she's hoping you will change your mind, and that's why you're still together.
If she were the one that had started this thread, I would be telling her "This isn't going to last. The sooner you break up with him, the sooner you will get over him and find someone else that will make you even happier. You made the right decision the first time, and going back to him will just make it harder on yourself. What if you pass over the ideal husband because you're wasting one more month with this guy?"
It's best for her if you break up now. I can't say I would blame you for not breaking up with her, but it would be good of you to make things easier on her and be her friend (not lover) for the remainder of your stay.
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