On the one hand, I disagree with dlish--whether she's cheating or not, she'll tell you "oh there's nothing, we're just friends." She could very well be telling the truth, and I'm inclined to believe her on that count. If this guy is "totally in love with her," and she liked him enough to cheat on you, she'd just dump you and date him. So I think you're safe on that guy.
But, I still don't know if I'd trust the rest. I wouldn't be comfortable with my girlfriend going out and partying without me that often, especially if she's flirting and doesn't come home until the next day. I mean, once in a while is one thing, but if this is every day, things are going to go wrong.
My advice? It sounds like she's a fun girl. Enjoy it while it lasts, but don't get attached, because it doesn't sound like this girl is in for a long-term relationship.
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