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The first thing I thought of when you said, "he answers with 'I guess' or 'If you want'" was "Why do you ask him yes or no questions?" If you say "What is your favorite sex position?", he can't really answer "I guess"!
Also, you might want to think about ground rules for his internet use. Yes, you have a right to set those rules. You can say, "Look if I am going to go through all of this effort to explore our sexuality together, then you have to focus on our sexuality too!"
I have set rules for myself so that I will give my best to Mrs. Cim: I will enter the public forums and speak to others, but I refuse to do emails, private messages, chat, or send photos. Mrs. Cim could always log in here and see every word I have ever written. So, while I explore human sexuality here - I explore MY sexuality exclusively with my girl!
This is a powerful argument:
There: pixel titties
Bedroom: real titties
There: pixel butt
Bedroom: real butt
etc.....
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