I was quite close to a Japanese woman long ago...she was first generation American and from experience I will say....she may very well be telling the truth. My relationship ended in much the same way when she understood just how unlikely a heavy metal vocalist was to spend his life with a traditional Japanese girl. At the time I really didnt care one way or another....but in hindsight (and thanx....cool memories)...it was cruel of me to put her through...uh...well ,Me.
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