Hey, look at it like this. Not everybody is perfect. If they were life would be borring. You know looking people in the eyes isn't always a good thing. I know that if you look the wrong person in the eyes it will lead to a confrontation. Ya maybe eye contact is considered a strong trait in social interaction but just because you can not look a person in the eye doesn't mean you are not a strong person. Plus if someone looks you in the eye while talking, maybe they're thinking of playing candyland in the clouds with their long lost suffed animals soul. What I'm trying to say here is that just about everything is overrated. Lack of eye contact is nothing to dwell on. However the way I see it is that it is an opportunity for you to become a better person in your eyes if you will.
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