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Reading your post, I must say I found myself in the same situation as you. I think it is perfectly normal to not be able to come the first times. It was the same for me. I believe it could be because we are too physically used to masturbation. Anyways, I got used to it, through, may I say, training?
Concerning the experience problem, she may have had previous lovers, but there are certainly ways in which you can make love to her that no one has done before... I'm not talking about positions our accessories here. I'm talking about the fact that you are different form others, and that you must use and emphasize that difference.
My girlfrien is 8 years older than me, she was my first, and yet I managed to make her discover things in the bedroom (probably also due to cultural differences). Anyways, good luck...
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