Honestly, sounds to me like he's enabling the situation, maybe even encouraging it.
Of course you should get more input than just mine, but I would agree with you, it doesn't sound to me like you are over-reacting.
By the way, that's a control thing--discounting your feelings, making *you* feel like *you're* doing something inappropriate. Well fine then. You're crazy. Do you want to be in a situation where "you're the crazy one", long-term? Of course not. Either way, if something doesn't change, you're not happy.
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