iblade,
i can see where you're coming from. based on the second conversation y'all had, it could sound like you're on an even page. do you think she's telling you the truth? do you think that she truly doesn't have deeper feelings for you than you do for her? do you know her past history enough to know how many relationships she's been in, etc? given the contrast in your posts, it's possible that she's setting herself up for more pain, per your first post...only that its convenient for you to believe what she's saying now. then again, despite what the crowds are saying...life is short, and gather ye rosebuds while ye may, and traveling through the world and having the times of your youth and so on...in my opinion, it's a tough call. the thing is, you're french. thus you must follow up on the passion...it's your calling