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and she made the conscious decision to end the relationship which took courage and strength to do. Then you did your "seductive" thing and that IMO wasn't respectful of her wishes to have a clean break of being friends.

Again, you're being selfish and not thinking about how SHE feels or will feel.

I again ask you, if the shoe was on the other foot and you thought you had a chance to keep a relationship with a totally banging hot woman who said, "Sorry, I just don't see a future with you," and you kept in your heart of hearts thinking that you there was a chance that it still may change, and it didn't would you like that person to keep dicking around with your emotions?

Adult doesn't mean being of age to make decisions. Adult means considering what consequences can happen and accepting of those consequences.

You laid it out on the table. She gave her response, and you responded with the "seductive" game. IMO not very adult at all.

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