you aren't being condemed -- your choice is being questioned by some people...
you clearly don't think you are doing anything wrong - so I'm not sure what the point of your thread was --
What some people have a problem with is that you have told this woman you want no future with her - and rather than have you spend your last month in japan alone... you are keeping her on a string.. yes it's her choice but you know what she wants.. and you won't give that to her. I'd agree wth alan that you are being selfish... you are not thinking of her at all here...
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