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I don't understand...you know you're going to leave, she's trying to keep herself from getting too emotionally involved, and you want her to remain vulnerable and probably hurt more when you leave so you can enjoy a few more weeks?
I think if you care about her, you would help her make the transition while you're still there. It's not like you're star-crossed lovers torn apart by unyeilding fate. You made this plan at the beginning. Her emotions have run ahead of the game (as they so often do, hard to control, those emotions), and she's trying for damage control. I think your role as a caring, affectionate friend should be to help minimize her pain. Pain you *know* with a certainty is going to happen.
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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