Eye contact is one of THE most important things out there. If you're looking to get more confidence in interpersonal relationships, that working on you "gaze" is very, very important, and can actually get half of the work done for you (the other half being working out and keeping yourself nice and fresh and all that). The problem is to manage it properly - you might come off as a psycho if you gaze too intently.
One more thing, though. It's cool if you absolutely ignore the pretty girl walking down the street - I mean the one with long, flowing hair on the wind, with an incredible skirt and all that. The point is that they want you look, and if you don't they actually can get intrigued. Another thing to do is to look, then smirk to yourself, and look the other way, as if you saw something silly. The rections are priceless. Kinda antisocial, buuuut. What the heck.
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