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Therapy is a good idea. It will help you work through your problems and better yourself as a person. I think your focus should be on yourself right now, not your boyfriend's feelings.
That said, I think it's perfectly normal and healthy for your boyfriend to want to have sex with his girlfriend. I think rather than setting arbitrary limits on when you decide to sleep with him, you should communicate with him your feelings on the matter. I think it's reasonable for men and women to want sex with their S.O. and be uncomfortable if it isn't happening. I also think it's a sign of serious relationship problems, but that's neither here nor there.
I had a friend of mine who was in a similar situation ask me for advice; I told her the same thing... she ended up getting therapy and is in a much better place now.
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