little_tippler

I agree with this. You never know what they really did. Your girlfriend sounds like she has some real issues.

I did long distance for over a year and I was faithful, and as far as I know my guy was also. I like sex plenty. But I'm with him and I couldn't dream of hurting him that way, ever.

If you think you want her for the longterm, by all means give it a try. But I know, that for me, from my experience, that once trust is broken, by cheating especially, then there is no going back completely.

If you don't think she's worth all of the distress this situation has caused you, and may cause you further in the future, then leave her. There are many people out there who ARE faithful.

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918