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Originally Posted by randomness
Clearly I wasn't clear. My bf is fine without having sex and I believe him. This 'pressure' is just self-inflicted. My point in this post was to say that I have unhealthy views toward sex b/c I think of him as an ass when he wants to sleep with me. Sorry about the miscommunication.
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Just a clarification... You've made it clear to your boyfriend that you want to wait XX amount of time before you sleep with him. He said he was OK with it. But now he's not OK with it and wants to have sex with you, and you think he's an ass for wanting to do so.
If I remember the last post, this guy is several years older than you are and not in your immediate geographic area.
Your views towards sex may be unhealthy, and for that you can get help, but I don't think that your boyfriend is helping the matter any. You've said what you want to do and gave your reasons, now he's trying to change your mind. From all you've said your relationship with your boyfriend is bordering on unhealthy.